A Realization

Please read the WHOLE note!! THX
Just recently I discovered some people I know were swingers and I was HORRIFIED!! How could people who were respectable citizens, who were role models for children, could possibly participate in such a dirty, immoral pursuit as that. I mean they're part of a large group with swapping, parties and crazy stuff like that! Then I realized I was judgning them for their lifestyle choice, for what they feel, for their happiness! They aren't hurting anyone and it's not anyone elses business. I am ashamed that I judged them! So many times people have condemned me for my decisions, thoughts, and beliefs. I am furious for the pain they have caused me and here I am completely ready to do it to this couple? They are honestly the nicest, most decent people I know. I think it was partly me not expecting it, partly not understanding their choice and partly a slight feeling of betrayal that they weren't exactly what I thought they were. But then isn't that a large part of people's attitude toward gays, lesbains and bisexuals? They resent them because they are not what they expect, not what they understand? People always fear what they do not understand, not what they expect and they lash out in they're fear!

Well all I want to say is that no matter your decisions, your belief, your thoughts, your lifestyle choice (as long as your choice is not hurting others), I accept you! I will see past the fear of the unusual to the beautiful people right there!

K